Friday, October 7, 2011

Teddy Roosevelt And Critics

Read Romans 14:10-13

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans%2014:10-13&version=NIV

Most people are born critics.  By this I mean that most people are prone to finding the flaws in things.  The errors.  The defects.  It comes naturally to them.  Such as finding the misspelling in an article.  Or a blooper in a movie.  Or some kind of food that is slightly over-cooked.  Or under-cooked.  The point is that most people are very good at finding mistakes.  And faults.  Especially the faults of others.  A neighbor who doesn’t keep track of their dog.   A co-worker who talks too much.  A spouse who spends too much time watching TV.  Or on the computer.  It’s as if they are completely blind to the positive in others.  All they can see is the negative.  And they let others know.

Teddy Roosevelt was the 26th President of the United States from 1901– 1909.  He was a man (and a President) who didn’t talk about doing things, he actually did them.  And he had little use for people who were critical of others.  You know, the kind who don’t do anything but who are very critical of the ones who are doing the doing.  (Did that just make sense?)  His quote is as follows:

    "It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how
    the strong man stumbled or where the doer of deeds could have
    done better.  The credit belongs to the man who is actually in
    the arena; whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood;
    who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again;
    who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends
    himself in a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows in the end the
    triumph of high achievement; and who, at the worst, if he fails,
    at least fails while daring greatly; so that his place shall never be
    with those cold and timid souls who know neither defeat or victory."


I love this quote.  Roosevelt has a way with words, doesn't he?  Don’t we all despise people who do nothing to help us but who are critical of our efforts?  Yes we do.  The fact is that if someone hasn’t helped us then we feel that they don’t have the right to be critical.

The reality is that life is full of critics.  They are everywhere.  And whenever we attempt to accomplish something, especially something for God, we can be sure that they will surface.  “It was too long.  Or boring.  You should have said this.  Or you should have done that.”  This can be very discouraging. 

At times such as this we need to remember that we don’t need to be perfect.  All we need to do is to put for the effort.  To have at least tried.  Far better to have served God imperfectly than not to have served Him at all.  The fact is that God often takes our imperfect efforts and blesses them.  He works through them and causes great things to happen in the lives of others.  If that’s the case then we need to turn a deaf ear to the critic.  And listen for the 'Well done' of the Master!

Lord, I realize that my efforts to serve You aren’t always perfect.  In fact, they are seldom perfect.  But I serve You anyway.  Because You want me to.  Because others need me to.  Because I love You.  Help me not to get discouraged when others criticize what I do.  I offer my service as a sacrifice to You.  May it be pleasing in Your sight.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Complete

Read I John 4:7-12

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=I%20John%204:7-12&version=NIV

Complete.  According to the dictionary, complete is “Having all necessary or normal parts, components, or steps; entire; having come to an end; concluded.”  One of the words that I would use to define complete is the word ‘whole’.

It is not uncommon at wedding ceremonies for either the bride or groom to say something to the effect that their partner ‘completes’ them.  What do they mean by this?  They mean that their true love, the person they are marrying, brings certain qualities and characteristics to the relationship that they had previously been lacking.  Now, with the two of them united, this person feels ‘complete’.  Not lacking anything.

Several weeks ago we looked at the creation of Eve in our Sunday School class.  When God presented Eve to Adam he recognized that a part of him that God had taken (one of his ribs) was being reunited with him.  Adam now felt complete.

The fact is that we are born spiritually ‘incomplete’ in our world.  We are missing a very key ingredient.  Or should I say ‘person’.  What (who) we are missing is God.  The result is that all through life we try to find substitutes to take His place.  Fame.  Fortune.  Career.  Relationships.  Possessions.  Sex.  And just about anything else.  But none of them completes us.  Only God can.   Only He can complete us.

That is the theme of one of my favorite songs from Kutless.  Below are the words and a link to listen to the song.  Enjoy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xR_Ha3KpiZc

Complete - Kutless

Incomplete it all began, the broken state that I was in,
I wished that I was someone else, cause' I was lost inside myself
I started seeing who I am, the day my life with You began,
You clearly solved the mystery, that finding You meant finding me.

God, I've fallen to my knees, I'm bowing at Your feet,
I give You all of me, in You I am complete,
It's all because of love, I'm not who I was,
I'm who I meant to be, in You I am complete.

God who doesn't need at all, I heard Your voice, I felt Your call,
It's echoing I cannot shake you off,
The stars that shine they bear Your name, they sing the song that gives You praise,
You've captured me, my heart is lifting off

God, I've fallen to my knees, I'm bowing at Your feet,
I give You all of me, in You I am complete,
It's all because of love, I'm not who I was,
I'm who I meant to be, in You I am complete.

I've got to tell the world about the things You've done,
I want to shout it out, I'm gonna live it now,
Amazing grace is why I'm singing.

God, I've fallen to my knees, I'm bowing at Your feet,
I give You all of me, in You I am complete,
It's all because of love, I'm not who I was,
I'm who I meant to be, in You I am complete.

Lord, I thank you that in You I am complete.  Whole.  I need nothing or no one else.  May I daily walk in and celebrate that completeness.  In Jesus' name, Amen.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Grading On The Curve - Part II

Read John 3:16, 14:6, Acts 4:12

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%203:16&version=NASB

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%2014:6&version=NASB

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Acts%204:12&version=NASB

Yesterday I mentioned ‘grade inflation’ and some teacher’s habit of grading their students on the curve.  And how that mentality has infected our culture in a number of areas.  Particularly the spiritual one.  This has led to the common belief that God also grades on the curve.  Does He?

The short answer is, No.  God does not grade on the curve.  God has a standard.  The standard is fixed.  Measurable.  It is called perfection.  In other words, no sin.  None.  A perfect score.  100.  Anything less will not do.  In Ezekiel 18:4 are told, “The soul who sins will die.”  The standard that God has is objective and not arbitrary.  We either meet the standard or we don’t.  Unfortunately Romans 3:23 tells us that “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”  In other words, no one makes the grade.  No one is going to make it to Heaven.  That’s the bad news.

The Good News is that God has made a way for us to still get into Heaven.  It is not a result of ‘grade inflation’ or ‘extra credit’.  The reality is that there is nothing that we can do to be good enough to get into Heaven.  This is where Jesus comes into the picture.  As a result of His sinless, perfect life, Jesus' death on the cross paid the penalty for our sins.  His death satisfied God’s justice.  As a result, when we put our faith in Jesus as our Savior, God forgives us our sin and we become righteous.  Now we have the perfection that He requires.  In essence, we make the grade through Jesus.

What a great reality this is.  We failed.  Jesus passed.  As a result, through faith in Him, we pass as well.  In the final analysis God doesn’t grade on the curve but on faith.  And boy am I happy about that!

Lord, I thank you that even though I fall far short of Your standard of perfection that Jesus didn’t.  He lived a perfect life.  He became the perfect sacrifice.  As a result, I can now make it to Heaven through Him.  Help me always to remember this.  To be thankful for it.  To appreciate it.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Grading On The Curve - Part I

Read Luke 13:1-9

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke%2013:1-9&version=NIV

Apparently grades in educational institutions are not what they once were.  Having been out of high school and college for some time now I can only go by what my own children experienced when they were in school and now what I read in the media.

Back when I went to school, the homework assignments were fairly challenging and the work needed to be done accurately, neatly, and on time.  If I remember right there were a few straight-A students but not many.  Good grades were hard to come by.  Unless you were super-smart you really had to earn them.

Somewhere along the line, things changed.  In some cases, drastically.  Things such as ‘extra credit’ came into existence.  This meant that if a student didn’t do very well on an exam or a homework assignment, they could do some teacher-assigned extra work.  By receiving a high mark on this they could bring up their GPA thus making up for their earlier poor grades.  Then ‘grading on the curve’ also came into existence.  This involved a teacher ignoring the actual scores of students on an exam and grading them on a curve.  So, if a particular test was difficult and the top score for a student was an 82, he/she was then given an A (instead of what would have been a B) and the rest of the student’s scores were raised in proportion.  This meant that a student who scored a 50 on an exam might receive a D instead of an F.   Then I heard of one teacher who actually spent the day before the exam going over with her/his class exactly what was going to be on the exam.  Basically they gave the class the answers.  These and other factors have contributed to students grades rising significantly over the past couple decades.

This is known as ‘grade inflation’.  Simply stated, grade inflation is higher grades for the same quality or quantity of work done as students of the past.  It is a hotly debated topic in educational circles.   http://www.mnsu.edu/cetl/teachingresources/articles/gradeinflation.html  I contend that grade inflation has infected our society in more ways that we realize.  It has also drifted over into the spiritual realm.  Let me explain.

There are many people in our world today who believe that God grades on the curve.  Just like many teachers and professors do.  There are no fixed standards.  Everything is flexible.  Extra credit can be obtained by doing a couple extra good works or throwing a few extra bucks in the offering plate.  Most of all, there will be no failures.  OK, murderers and people like that might fail to make the grade and not get into Heaven.  But certainly everyone else will make the grade.  Why?  Because God grades on the curve.  None of us is really that much better or worse than any other, so God will move us all up on the grading scale.  Those who have lived virtuous lives will get A’s.  Those who were pretty decent citizens will get B’s & C’s and those who basically lived for themselves their whole lives will be upgraded to D’s.   Good enough to get in.  But what does the Bible say?  That is for tomorrow’s post.

Lord, I understand that many people in our culture believe that everything is relative.  That there are no absolutes.  No fixed standards.  Help me not to believe this.  Help me stay true to Your Word that unless I, or anyone else, repents we will perish.  Eternally.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.


Monday, October 3, 2011

Honesty Pays (Not Always In Money)

Read Exodus 20:16, Proverbs 11:3, 16:11

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Exodus%2020:16&version=NIV

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2011:3&version=NLT

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2016:11&version=NLT

On August 11, 2011 Pat Smith took his two 11-year-old sons, Nick & Nate, to a hockey game in Faribult, Minnesota.  Before the game Pat had signed his son Nick up for a chance to win $50,000 at a charity raffle.  Sure enough, in between periods, Nick’s name was selected.  Unfortunately Nick was playing outside the rink at the time and so Nate, Nick’s twin brother went down to the ice instead.  There Nate was given a hockey stick and a puck was placed on the ice.  His challenge was to shoot the puck down to the opposite goal, through a small opening, and into the net.

To understand just how difficult this was, the goal was 90' away.  The opening was 3 ½” wide.  The puck itself was 3" wide.  This meant that there was very little room for error.  The puck would have to go straight through.  Now one thing you need to know about ice in a hockey rink is that it is uneven.  So the odds of shooting a puck that distance, through a hole that size, accurately were very long.  Not impossible but highly improbable.

Well, Nate lines the puck up, and with very little fanfare, shoots it down the ice.  Closer, closer, it gets until it miraculously goes into the net!  Of course the entire rink erupts into applause.  Nate had won $50,000!  The next day, however, Pat called the charity organizers and told them about the switch.  The result was that since Nate had taken the shot, instead of his brother, Nick, the insurance company would not pay.  After some deliberation the insurance company decided instead to donate $20,000 each to two youth hockey organizations.  When questioned about his actions afterwards, Pat said, “You’ve got to do what’s right.  You don’t want to teach kids to lie no matter how much money is involved.  I just think that honesty is more important than any prize or money you could get."

Wow!  You just don’t see that kind of honesty these days.  Because he wanted to teach his sons the value of honesty, Pat confessed that Nate had made the shot and not Nick.  And it cost him (and Nick) $50,000.  The reality is that many people wouldn’t have said a word about the switch.  Not a word.  They would have eagerly collected the money and kept the secret to themselves.  Sure, it was still an 11-year-old boy who made the shot.  Sure, it was an identical twin.  But it wasn’t the boy on the ticket.  That ultimately made the winning shot dishonest.  Which is the opposite of being honest.  In the end, the decision to be honest cost $50,000.  In that sense, honesty didn’t pay.  But it did pay in that Pat Smith taught his sons a lesson that they would remember for the rest of their lives.  And since the story was picked up by the media who knows how many other people were positively influenced by it?  How much is that worth?  The answer = priceless.

As Christians, we are called to be honest.  To be people of the truth.  To tell the truth.  To live the truth.  Whether it’s finding a lost wallet, being a truthful witness, or telling someone how we really feel, we are to be honest.  Honesty pays.  Not necessarily in dollars and cents, though sometimes it does.  It pays by developing godly character in us.  Through the free flow of the Holy Spirit within us.  And in the promotion of godliness in our world.

Lord, I live in a world where there is much dishonesty.  Sometimes others expect me to be dishonest for their benefit.  Sometimes I am tempted to be dishonest for my own benefit.  Help me to resist these temptations and to be honest.  All the time.  In everything.  For my own good.  For the good of others.  For Your glory.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Courageous - Part II

Read Joshua 1:1-9

Yesterday I mentioned how I had gone to see the movie Courageous.  With my son Brian.  What a father-son experience.  I am so thankful.  It’s a must-see movie.  A few more thoughts about fatherhood.

There are a lot of things that us men can do in life.  Start a business.  Launch a career.  Be involved in our communities.  Then there’s the whole recreation thing.  Boy, do some men pour a lot of time and energy into that one!  Then there's the maintenance of vehicles and the house.  There's so much for us to do.  But one of the greatest things we can do is to be a father.  Unfortunately, sometimes fatherhood gets lost in the busyness of life.  The result is that our children get our left-over time.  A few minutes before or during dinner.  A few minutes before they go to bed.  We don’t mean for it to be this way but we have ‘stuff’ to do.  Important stuff.  Stuff that involves work.  Stuff that involves ourselves.

The fact is that our children grow up fast.  Very fast.  I know from first-hand experience.  If we aren’t careful, our children will be raised by someone else.  Friends.  School.  The media.  The world.  The result is that our children will have their values and not God's.

Before we know it our children will be out of the house.  Out on their own.  Making decisions that not only impact their lives, but the lives of others.  And our lives as well.  You would be surprised if you only knew how your children’s decisions can devastate your life.  I’ve seen it up close.  It ain’t pretty.

Somewhere in the past month I came upon the following comment on a blog.  “I sit here thinking about how much courage it takes to live an ordinary life.”  The comment stuck with me.  I would also say that it takes courage to be a father.  To be a godly father.  Don’t expect any help from the world in this department.  In fact, expect to be opposed.  Expect to be fought tooth-and-nail.  Expect that the combination of the flesh, Satan and the world are going to do everything in their power to keep you from influencing your child for God.  They want to destroy your child.  The question is, are you going take it sitting down?  Or are you going to stand up and fight?  Fighting takes courage.

Lord, I am no match for the forces that want to seduce and destroy my children.  But You are.  You are mighty to save.  And no one can pluck them out of Your hand.  Help me to be bold.  And courageous.  To fight the good fight.  To put on the whole armor of God.  To use all of the spiritual weapons at my disposal to defend my children from the enemy.  That I will do my part in training them up in Your fear, wisdom and ways.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Courageous - Part I

Read Ephesian 6:4

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%206:4&version=NIV


I went to see the premier of the movie Courageous last night.  Along with 62 other men (and their friends) from our church.  It is quite possibly only the 2nd premier that I’ve ever attended.  I like movies.  I’m just not one of those people who has to see it the first night.  In fact, most of the movies I watch are long after they’ve premiered.  Sometimes years!  They are DVD’s from my son, Brian.  He buys them.  Beth & I watch them.  It’s a lot cheaper that way.

Courageous is the story of several men and their journey in fatherhood.  Each man is at a different place in that journey.  A tragedy starts one of the men on a mission to discover what God wants from him as a father.  Surprised, overwhelmed, ashamed, he commits himself, with God’s help, to being the best father that he can be.  To assist with this, he draws up a Resolution.  During this process he invites several of his friends to join him.  Together they begin a journey into Biblical fatherhood.  The way that God designed it.  As such, Courageous is an invitation to fatherhood.  To be fully engaged.  Both feet in.  To do it God’s way.  With God’s help.

I love being a father.  And now a grandfather.  It is one of my favorite roles in life.  It was 3 days into our marriage when I turned to Beth and mentioned to her that we should start a family.  So much for spending a lot of time together as a couple!  After a miscarriage we became parents 18 months after we tied the knot.  I became a father.  I have been one ever since.

I’m not sure what I like the most about being a father.  Knowing that your child is a part of you - your genes, your characteristics, your personality.  Having a chance to mold, shape and influence a life.  Being responsible for someone else’s health and welfare.  Having someone trust you.  Look up to you.  Do things with you.  Love you.  (And there’s all the toys and cool stuff you get to play with along the way!)  All I know is that Father’s Day is a HUGE holiday in my life.  I absolutely love it when each of my children give me a card, thanking me for what I have done in their lives.  I am glad that they are proud of me.  That they love and respect me.

Although my children are all grown and out of the house (where did the time go?) the journey is not over.  I am still their father and will continue to be as long as God gives me breath.  I want to continue to influence them.  Assist them.  Be a source of wisdom for them.  And Strength.  Encouragement.  Be a role model.  And even though I am not the primary male-figure in my grandchildren’s lives (their fathers are) I want to be every bit engaged and influential in their lives as well.  And I can.  If I commit to it.  With God’s help.

Lord, I thank you for the privilege that You’ve given me to be a father.  To have children who have a part of me in them.  To have children who are going to carry on my life, my legacy, to future generations.  Help me to rely on You so that I can a role model for them - a source of wisdom, strength, encouragement and inspiration.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.